Thursday, January 24, 2013

What is love?

We often find ourselves and our minds struggling with this one weird question: what is love! (Stop thinking about Haddaway's song!!!)

Anyways, I guess nobody knows the real and true meaning of love. It has too many facets! Its meaning is too vast for us mere humans to understand and acknowledge its extensiveness... Believe me!

Its just natural for anybody to love someone with blood relations but then what makes one to love somebody who does not fall in that category? What is it? What is it that is beyond blood relations? What is it that can make you fall in love with someone?

I got to see a beautiful write up from Bob Marley and it really gave answer to my question to a certain extent! Though my thirst for the exact answer for above question is still unquenchable but yes, below quote really gave me a part of that answer! Here it is:

"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”  - Bob Marley

Now tell me what do think? Is it love?

Keep smiling and stay blessed forever and ever and ever....<3

A b'ful thought by Charlie Chaplin

Came across a beautiful quote by Charlie Chaplin and as usual, I cannot stop myself from sharing it:)

And thats why I always say "Keep Smiling......":D

Standing on the edge of a river

And guess who's back exactly after 2 months! Its me!!!! No explanations! Just wanna say one thing: Dear Diary, I missed you! I really missed you<3<3<3

N here comes something that I wrote last month:)

Standing on the edge of a river,
Watching my reflection in its water...
I ask myself who am I? Who am I?
I urge to know who exactly am I?
A mere piece of flesh and bones?
That carries a bunch of  fatuous emotions?
Emotions that are meaningless to others,
Emotions that has no real existence in this world...
For them, I am a human, I am a woman,
or for few, I am just a walking skeleton...
They have the freedom to define me,
They enjoy the ungiven authority to fix different labels on me...
But why am I not able to understand who truly am I?
Will I ever be able to know the true meaning of my individuality?
Standing on the edge of a flowing river,
Watching my trembling reflection in its water...
I feel as if its shivering in agitation,
'Coz I am unable to identify and recognize it...
Or is it the water, that is jolting my reflection to wake up,
Wake up from some deep sleep...
Jolting it in anger to wake my soul up,
To wake it up and face this world...
How hard I try to make my refection static,
How hard I try to make my image firm...
My reflection tries hard to get back in shape,
For me to acknowledge and know who am I...
Still I am unable to understand who exactly am I?
I am unable to discover the true meaning of my existence!

Keep smiling and stay blessed:)