Saturday, January 25, 2014

You might not be perfect... But you are perfect for me...

"But for now, let me say — without hope or agenda, just because it’s Christmas and at Christmas you tell the truth — to me, you are perfect. And my wasted heart will love you. Until you look like this... (a picture of a mummy)"
                                                —  Mark, Love actually

I am sure many of us are aware and adore this beautiful scene from Love actually!

We all know and will also agree that love is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world! And I know this is the most used phrase in the universe, but then forgive me! I could not find much appropriate and better words to describe the importance of this one feeling: Love! This is the only feeling in the world that can make you think "Am I crazy?"

The day I watched this movie and this scene, I remember asking myself, "How amazing it would be to be perfect for someone? How would it feel?"

Well, it feels perfect. It feels special. It feels wonderful. It feels amazing. It feels unique. It feels extraordinary. It feels miraculous. it feels remarkable. It feels beautiful. It feels great. It feels every good thing that exist on this earth




Being perfect for someone! What does that mean?

Well, it means being 2 pieces of the same puzzle. Being a sketch of an artist. Being a beautiful story of a narrator. Being the water in a river. Being the moon in a full moon night. Being the gentle wind when its too hot. Being a gleam of warmth when it gets cold. Being a shelter when it rains. Being a cure when it pains. Being a beat to a heart. Being a lie to a liar. Being blue color to the sky. Being wings to a bird. Being an answer to a question. Being a weapon to a soldier. Being a poem to a poet, Being everything to nothing!

“…If, however, your feelings have changed, I will have to tell you: you have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love … I love … I love you. I never wish to be parted from you from this day on.”

                                                                                                            —Darcy , Pride & Prejudice

It means loving someone in distress, loving someone even when they are irritated. Loving someone even when they don't need you around. Loving someone even when they help you lose your mind. Loving someone even when they are annoyed. Loving someone even when they are grumpy. Loving someone even when they shout and scream. Loving someone even when they fill your life with troubles. Loving someone even when they do things that you detest. Loving someone even when they bring disorder to your life. Loving someone even when they give you pain. Loving someone even when they are not fun to be around. Loving someone when they are in despair. Loving someone even when they cause you distress. Loving someone even when they are full of hopelessness. Loving someone even when they are disappointed. Loving someone even when they desire to be with someone else. Loving someone, when they are strongest and also, when they are the weakest!

"I Like You Very Much Just As You Are"
                                                                     — Mark, Bridget Jones's Diary

It means standing next to someone when they need you and when they don't. It means holding someone's hands when they ask you and even they don't. It means its ok not to be there when they are happy, but to be there when they are distressed. It means its ok not to be there in their victory but to be there in their failure. It means its ok not to be there in their great phase, but to be there in their dire straits. It means loving someone with your whole heart and soul

"If You're A Bird, I'm A Bird"

                                                  — Noah,  "The Notebook"

It means falling in love with their stupidity. Falling in love with their craziness. Falling in love with their silliness. Falling in love with their insanity. Falling in love with their madness. Falling in love with their absurdity. Falling in love with their childishness. Falling in love with their silliness. Falling in love with their ridiculousness. Falling in love with their phobias. Falling in love with their passions. Falling in love with their obsessions. Falling in love with their fascinations. Falling in love just not with their positives, but embracing their negatives.

“Isabella Swan, I promise to love you every moment of forever.”

                                                                         — Edward Cullen, The Twilight Saga: Eclipse

It means loving someone unconditionally. Loving someone absolutely. Loving someone completely.  Loving someone extremely.  Loving someone enormously. Loving someone entirely. Loving someone wholly. Loving someone exceptionally. Loving someone exceedingly. Loving someone endlessly. Loving someone really! Yes, really...

 “…I might be the only one who appreciates how amazing you are in every single thing that you do, and … I watch them, wondering how they can watch you bring their food, and clear their tables and never get that they just met the greatest woman alive. And the fact that I get it makes me feel good, about me.”
                — Melvin, As Good As It Gets

It means making someone your world. It means giving yourself completely to that one person. It means to take them to seventh heaven. It means making them value themselves. It means making them believe in themselves. It means being with them to help them right their wrongs. It means making them trust themselves. It means making them realize their worth. It means making them important to themselves. It means making someone love themselves

Loving someone means making someone perfect even when they are not!

Fall in love! Its beautiful, even when it is not! Its perfect, even when it is not. Its crazy, even when it is not. Its just everything, even when it is not!

“I love you. You’re my only reason to stay alive… if that’s what I am.”
                                                                                          —Edward, The Twilight Saga: New Moon




3 comments:

  1. this is just beautiful...and i am so happy to saythat I had the priviledge to experience it...of loving someone unconditionally, wholeheartedly, passionately, unselfishly...for a short period of time ;))

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