Friday, November 23, 2012
I was definitely not busy this time... Naaaaa, I wasn't... Just that I thought to take a break deliberately! Break from everything on earth. Off course, this "everything" doesn't include office as that's something which is beyond "everything"...
Anyways, I was in a different phase: a phase when you wish to be alone, when you feel like taking a break from the whole wide world, when you feel like discovering your inner self all over again, you feel like exploring your soul and your mind to the extent that had never been done before, when you mentally get hibernated and you just get shifted to your own little secret place, a place where nobody else has a permission to enter!
But yes, there are few lucky ones with whom you still want to talk, you want to share your stuff and thoughts, even in this phase:)
Yes, so I was in that phase from last few days and so, I just did not feel like writing anything... Its not that I am back from that little secret place of mine to this real world completely... But yes, I am back partially:) I mean I had to! I had to! Compulsions of life you know... You can't remain hibernated forever, that's nature's rule... You can only avail that luxury in the winters and you have to come back to life once the winters are gone...
Wish it was in my hands and believe me I would have remained in my little world forever! You know, that place, that amazing world of your own is so so thrilling and enchanting that you just don't feel like being a part of this real world anymore!!
Anyways, lets me change the topic else I will be labeled as a crazy! BTW, just to add I am not AT ALL on the verge of becoming a saint:) No, I am not!
Anyways, have you ever met somebody with whom you just feel an instant connection happening in the first meeting, even if you don't share words, you feel as if something is common between you two, you know that you both will end up being best friends, you know that this person is going to take a special place in your life? Strange no... BTW, there is other side of the coin too... It also happens that you meet somebody and you just feel a kind of dislike for that person in just the first meet! What do you think why it happens? Specially the former one?
I donno! Somehow I feel that destiny is a very powerful thing. We meet those people with whom we are destined to meet... And then at times, you end up being super duper best friends forever!!! God, I sound so so confusing at times!!! Am I sounding so now? Never mind...
Ok... I am gonna take an off now... Else I will start filling up this space with allllllll my weird thoughts!!!
You keep smilingggg and stay blessed:)
Sunday, November 18, 2012
Then I looked for the dictionary meaning of success. There were 2: 1. The accomplishment of an aim or purpose and 2. gaining wealth and status. I was upset!!! Why do everyone always link the word success to words like "Aim", "purpose", "wealth" and "status". So, people who don't have anything from this list but are still happy cannot be considered as successful??? I asked the same question about "What success is" to myself. And my mind immediately responded "when one feels happy and contented is when one is successful" and I was happy from my definition! and BTW, I truly believe in it.
How can you label yourself with the successful tag if you have loads and loads of wealth but no satisfaction, no time to enjoy that wealth and all you aim for 24X7 is about its safety, about how to increase it!
BTW, No offence to anybody. The meaning of success is different for different individuals. In this post, its all about my definition about it.
I always wonder how can one really declare of having achieved success merely by achieving materialistic goals, aims, wealth? That's it??? Don't you think its like depreciating the value of this amazing word called success? I think so! Success is something which is much much beyond these mere materialistic words. For me, words like happiness, peace, satisfaction, enjoying life defines success. I might be sounding like a crazy saint. But its ok, I say what I believe in from inside.
Guys, piling up wealth, achieving a status, accumulating tons of money can never ever give you peace, happiness and satisfaction beyond a certain point! All they give is more hunger for more money, gives you much higher aims to achieve and all you keep doing for the whole life is fulfilling that hunger.
Nobody in this rat race ever thinks about the end. Are we not mortals? Are we going to live forever? Does anybody know what will happen after one's demise? I mean will one get another chance to live and breathe on this beautiful planet and that too as a human being! Now think, does it really matter how much wealth one has accumulated? At the end, everybody is going to meet at the same point:) I am sure God is not going to have different chambers for "successful" and "unsuccessful" beings...
I am not saying stop working and just enjoy! No, that's like demeaning life. All I want to say is try to give a small share of this word "Success" to words like happiness, peace, enjoyment! Give them some space in your busy lives. If you can't create a 50-50 balance between ambitions and happiness then at least give a share of 20% to the later in your life. That will be more than enough to change the meaning of success for you. Believe me...
You remember as kids, small things used to make us smile, make us happy? I think back then we were more successful as compared to today. Wish we had a barometer to measure success and I am sure, it would have proved my point:D
Have you recently laid on your terrace and stared at those stars, the beautiful stars, the heart throbbing moon and felt them penetrating and sinking deep in your thoughts? Have you seen the beautiful sky and tried to create different shapes out of all those white dreamy clouds and felt them capturing your mind? Have you recently seen a flock of birds flying high and wished you were one of them? Have you recently bid a goodbye to a flying plane or a helicopter? This all sounds so crazy now? Isn't it? After all, we are not kids anymore, we are matured grown ups. It will be so embarrassing for us to do all this now. Right? hahhhh... We humans tend to live with so many illusions! Because we don't have time for all this, we ignore them saying that we would look like a fool doing these. You must have surely read the story of a fox who on being unable to get a few grapes, leaves them thinking "Those grapes are sour"! We all behave in the same manner...
Anyways, I believe in the opposite. All the above give me immense pleasure even today. You also try doing them and believe me, the happiness you will get is commendable, its beyond words...
Getting materialistic success had no meaning if you deprive yourself from small enjoyments and happiness guys:)
So, try to dedicate a small share from your busy lives to achieve the other (and real, for me!) part of success :)
Keep smiling alwaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzzz and stay blessed:)))
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Saturday, October 27, 2012
Yesterday was his b’day and as usual, I couldn’t post this write up yesterday as I wanted to write something very very special for him! I wanted to take my own time in doing thatJ He completely deserves it! This special man in my life is my dad, my dad who had always been with me in whatever I did! True he did that in his own ways but I love you dad! Whatever I am today is just and just because of you and nobody on this whole planet can ever take your place!
You gave me life,
You gave me existence...
You gave me my individuality,
You gave me my originality...
You gave me much more than what you could afford,
You gave me your selfless love, warmth and so much more...
You gave me your peace of mind,
You gave me your sleeps of night...
You gave up your dreams to fulfill mine,
You gave up your luxuries to make them mine...
You are the bestest dad I could have ever asked for,
You are the epitome of God, how could I ask more...
I wish you become my dad, every time I take birth,
I don’t care in what form I come on this earth...
I love you more than anything in this universe,
My feelings for you are beyond these mere words!
Happy Birthday dad! Love you and wish you many many many many happy years to comeJ
Friday, October 26, 2012
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Friday, October 19, 2012
Another thought of mine:
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
The cream froth floating in a cup of coffee,
Looks like our hopes floating in the ocean of obscurity…
Looks like a person getting tough in the searing difficulties…
Monday, October 15, 2012
No idea, I covered how many miles...
They warned me not to go that side,
Still my mind wanted me to take that ride...
Its not that I am extra brave,
For doing forbidden things, my soul always craves...
Its not that I was just not scared,
But that's something, beyond fear I had to dare...
To wander in the forbidden land,
Wanted to feel and touch its soul and sand...
I am happy I went on that road,
Discovered the meaning of satisfaction in that mode
Walking through the forbidden aisle,
No idea, I covered how many miles...
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Anyways, I was unable to pen down anything from last few days as I was busy with the maddening thing of job change! Oh I tell you its super tiring... I mean the paper work, finishing the documents, dealing with tension, stress, getting acquainted with the new people, new job, new place! But finally I am over it so I am happy:D (n here comes my 1000 watt smile!)
But I know coming weeks (probably it can stretch to months as well!) are going to be super hectic for me as I have a lot to learn and I am going to give myself to it completely! So, lets hope I am able to write regularly because when I don't do that, I start feeling guilty:( And I hate to deal with that! I have to give so many excuses to myself just to convince myself (sounds weird? but that's true!) My inner soul is very particular about few things and make sure I pursue them regularly and writing is one of them!
Anyways, keep smiling and stay blessed:) C ya soon:)))
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Friday, October 5, 2012
Thursday, October 4, 2012
Keep smiling and stay blessed:)
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Yesterday finally I got to watch Cocktail (I know I am late... I am very late, ok...ok... super late!!!)... But this post is not about the movie review so I am safe:D
Its about the connotation that this movie has drawn with our society's hypocrisy! When I saw the trailers of this movie back in July, I really thought this one to be different, to be youth centric! I thought finally we got a movie which could portray a strong character like that of Veronica in a positive sense! But alas, I was completely disappointed by the way the whole Veronica character was portrayed in the movie!!!
This movie has once again established the decades old rotten subtext, the prejudice which prevails in our society that girls who wear salwar suit, pray in front of a Deity's statue, make biryani are the only ones eligible to get married to! This movie has also been made on the same decayed notion that girls like Veronica are only to screw and not to get married to! Phew... I cant explain how much I abhorred this movie!!! And yes, even the stupid thing how Veronica was ready to change herself completely just for the heck of getting married to a
What a stupid notion this movie has established "Good girls always remains covered!" and yes, do not forget their middle name is "Sacrifice"...!!!
I really wish our society get rid of this hypocrisy soon and yes, our movies too!
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Have you ever dreamt of sliding on a rainbow’s slope?,
Keep Smiling and Stay Blessed!
Monday, October 1, 2012
Saturday, September 29, 2012
Anyways, I believe the first step towards being the
So what do you think about the above mentioned points? Are they reasonable or not? All of us would definately have one or two points from the above mentioned list to change! Honestly, even I do have! So, lets bring the change within ourseves and make driving a pleasurable experience for us as well as others!
Keep smiling and stay blessed always:)
Friday, September 28, 2012
I have even witnessed few cases where a person's complete personality has been judged solely on the basis of his/her outer appearence!! That’s so so annoying… Plz people, stop doing that!!! There are many other important things in a person than just the looks! If you really want to judge a person, then first go and dare to know the inner side of that person and then, judge him/her. BTW, even that is wrong as you have no right to judge somebody. But I gave an option for the sake of all the psychos out there, who just cannot survive without evaluating and criticizing others!